I was definitely the product you'd expect from the odd and awkward situation in which I grew up and surely I showed little talent, no free thinking and no genius or particular promise. The poem is not good - some youth write profoundly beautiful and wise poetry and young people today are far more savvy than I ever was - but it does illustrate that after fifty years or so writing will improve. We writers often have our doubts, but we are an unrelenting bunch. We write, write, write. We enrich, reform and reframe as if every word of ours will spark more Light in the collective unconscious, which I rather think they do.
Make of Me a Tree
I am young, Lord,
but my heart is true,
Make of me a tree
Make me strong and supple
That when tempests blow,
I shall stand unyielding.
Let me be humble in the
Praise of Your Majesty
And testify to Your greatness.
When rains besiege
Let me be shelter
To those who have not found Your Son,
Yes! I am young
but my heart is true:
Make of me a tree.
- Jamie Dedes
As for cousin Dan in the photograph (six years younger than me), he was inspired by the poem to paint a lovely "portrait" of a tree. These days it's Father Dan - Rev. Fr. Daniel S. Sormani, C.S.Sp. - a theologian and professor at Ateneo de Manila University in the Philippines. Dan always showed real promise. Like my son, Richard, and Dan's brother, Christopher, even as a toddler he was smart and funny. So many of you appreciated Dan's piece What Have We Done That People Can Pick Up Weapons and Kill? Come March, Dan will be back in the United States. We will get to visit for the first time in forty years.
And, yes!, I did want to become a nun. I was told there would be family background checks and I feared rightly that there were things in my parent's history that would embarrass my mom. I became a now-and-again wife, a mother, a writer, a poet. No regrets. The life mission is essentially the same though the vehicle of service differs and the actions are grounded in ethics not creed, which is not to imply that the two are necessarily exclusive.
The Blessed Mother: She reminds me of who I am and who I should be, Daniel S. Sormani, C.S.Sp., The BeZine, July 2016
Note: The photograph of the two of us together was taken at a fundraiser our mothers were helping with for the Guild for Exceptional* Children in Bay Ridge, Brooklyn, New York. This remains a worthy effort and worth your time if you happen to live in that area and are looking for a good cause to support.
* exceptional = developmental disabilities
© 1967/2016 photographs (Daniel Sormani Family Album) and text and poem (Gigi "Jamie" Dedes), All rights reserved